If you don’t learn anything out of this entire book, make
sure you learn how to cultivate unwavering confidence. Women love a confident
man!
You could be the darkest dude in the world but if you carry
yourself as very confident person you won’t have any problems attracting more
women and being a player in the dating scene
But just how do you
manage to get confidence Most people’s confidence is determined by either past events
that happened to them or future events that believe will happen
You must stay in the NOW! Don’t think about past things or
future things because you don’t want either to determine how you live life
One way that you can use to regain your confidence is to
find something that you like to do, can do well, and DO IT! If you have ever wanted to take up a hobby,
now is the time
No matter what type of hobby it is, it will do double
duty. It will give you a sense of
accomplishment and purpose that will also boost your self esteem. The more you
get absorbed in your hobby, the better you will feel
People are attracted to others who exhibit confidence in
themselves
In addition to getting a hobby, start to spend some money yourself. Listen to music that you like and sing along. Singing is actually an excellent exercise and
can boost your energy level as well as endorphins Rent or buy movies that you like and watch them. Treat yourself to entertainment that is happy
and will get your mind off of your problems
Take a trip to the barber and get a new style. The idea here
is to get yourself looking and feeling good about yourself. It’s sort of taking
an outward approach to make you feel better inside
Get a pedicure, manicure or a massage. This will make you
feel good physically…And Yes! It’s ok for guys to get these things. Women like
a man that grooms himself
You might want to spend a little money and get yourself a
new outfit. This can also make you feel
better about yourself
By spending money on yourself and doing things that you like
to do, including hobbies, you will regain confidence that you may have lost from
past experiences
Confidence stems from liking yourself and knowing what you
want. You have probably heard this
before many times, but you cannot expect anyone else to like you unless you
like yourself
Before you even think about approaching a woman, be sure to
do something for yourself to restore your confidence level. (If it was down in
the first place)