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The First Date



Dating is a way of seeking to satisfy a basic human need for companionship, friendship and a close association with others. Dating encompasses more however, because these needs can be fulfilled somewhat through ties with family members
 
Dating is therefore a quest by individuals to establish a relationship or association with someone of the same or opposite sex, to satisfy longings of a deeper nature
To begin to fulfill those basic but much desired longings, a ‘first date’ must be arranged. At first thought, a ‘first date’ seems simple and self-explanatory – the first date between two individuals

While that’s always the case, a first date could also be the first time ever someone is going on a date. It could also be the first of a type of date – such as a blind date. And a first date could also be the first time that someone is about to begin dating again following a breakup, illness or other event
Whatever the situation, there are some common features and things to observe on that all important ‘first’ date

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