the proven dating secrets

Never compromise your morals. If the person you are interested in is not interested in you, then you should move on Some people are very polite and you may not realize immediately that they aren't interested But, given time, it should become apparent. In the meantime, take it slow, and even if you are head over heels, don't reveal this right away, at least until you are sure they are genuinely interested in you, too, or they could use your attraction to their benefit Usually it is best to reveal one's feelings step by step, not much more nor much less than the other has revealed   However, people have very different ways for showing that they are or are not interested, so do not break up, or step it up, without talking things through as to where you're both headed If you feel like you need time to decide, do not hesitate to talk Never be forceful. If you ever pressure her to do something she doesn't feel comfortable doing, she won...

Pay attention to positive traits, features and character about her. It does not have to be complex, it may even be simply letting her know that you love the way she is dressed or her hair is styled Tell her things like “You have such beautiful smile” State your compliments by looking her straight in the eye this emphasizes the sincerity of your compliments Body compliments should be avoided in the initial stage of your interaction but compliment do compliment on her later and always in the relationship Compliment her on her brains, jokes and talents and be very sincere

A little bit of generosity goes a long way. This doesn't necessarily mean monetary generosity  Perhaps your woman has been having financial problems, or perhaps she's been having difficulty with a relative or her boss. If you lend a compassionate ear, she will come away with a good impression of you and the date you had together   Listening is a skill many men have difficulty with, but it is one of the most important skills any man can possess. If her openness makes you feel uncomfortable, just nod and smile Try to find areas where you have something in common Be considerate; always show kindness and courteousness towards her. Open the car door for her, offer to drive her (and drive safely, so as not to frighten her) Always pay for the first date Be punctual when picking her up. Be kind to waiters and cab drivers Women appreciate a man who is respectful, as it says a lot about how he will treat her and whether or not he respects women in ...

Take her to watch movies, if she likes movies. If she likes sports you can go and watch a sporting event together   Take her to the Olympics, just kidding; you can go on a drive together to a predetermined spot. Serenade her sometimes by singing a love song outside her window. Go to a coffee house and read poetry to each other   Call your local radio station and make a request for her favorite song or any love song to be played and make sure she is listening, by first sending a text message to her asking her to listen to the particular radio station at the said time Enjoy the outdoors; picnic in your local park or at your local beach; host a candlelight dinner in your own backyard, patio or terrace, use the stars as your backdrop and candles to create intimacy You can watch the sun go down or the moon come up together. You can also visit the Museum or National Park together It is exciting to try new things, but don't go too far outside of eith...

Going out on dates is actually a must in every relationship, whether you have been married for fifty years or just starting. Our focus is really on the man that has just met a woman he is interested in and a man that has just indicated his interest in a woman he has known for some time   Though, a married man can still use any or all of these ideas to woo his wife because the wooing never really stops When planning a date, men often think that there are certain things that they should and should not do Women are individuals, though, and what turns one woman on may be very off-putting and aversive to another. By following a few simple guidelines, you can make sure that everything goes smoothly and happily for both of you WARNING: If you are on a budget, decide on how much you want to spend and stick to it. Decide on an affordable activity and location, decide on affordable place to dine out or you can as well have a picnic in the middle of your living ...

This is a very important tool in a relationship make out time to communicate with her, call her when you promise to call, call her when she does not expect you to call, send her romantic text messages and if you are a good writer, write romantic poems Be attentive, listen to her don’t always do the talking learn to listen to her. Make the effort to sit down across from her after a long day to discuss work, friends and your relationship... Don't force the topic toward the relationship Concentrate on her, do not only look at her focus on her: her eyes, her body language and her voice, let her know that she has your undivided attention  Notice when she is happy and when she is sad try to make her happy. Let her know at all times that you care her    Communication is how we get to know each other. The ability to listen is a great tool, and in case you're wondering, no, it's not the same thing as hearing If you're out on a date and getting yo...

Becoming Mr. Right is all about showing your woman that you can satisfy her every need. You don’t have to break a bank to impress her. If she expects you to break the bank before you can get her or make her happy then she is not worth your time, effort and money. There are many good women out there. Leave her! It actually takes little things applied correctly to make most good women happy. Follow these strategies and you would never go wrong Give Her Gifts Sparingly Giving gifts is a good way of showing your woman that you appreciate her, because that is what she really wants from you. When buying her gifts put some thought to it, don’t only give her gifts on her birthdays, Valentine’s Day and on other known holidays. Surprise her with a gift from time to time. Buy her things that she likes, it might just be something she mentioned that she likes during the course of your conversation. Something you feel would make her smile It is not the cost of the gift t...

Whether or not you take a ‘wait and see’ approach, you must have some ideas about what you desire, or have certain preferences   The extent to which your date shows any of the traits that you prefer can set the tone for future dates, or be an indicator of what potential the date has to become a part of your life Though important, expectation and anticipation about your first date has to be managed so that it doesn’t have a harmful or negative effect  This can happen if you are so filled and overwhelmed by what your are thinking – what you are expecting and anticipating – that you expect exactly that to happen You would then fail to see and to appreciate the true personality of your date If that happens, then the purpose of going on a date will have been futile and useless For the first date, it’s best if you simply ensure that the person meets certain of your basic expectations on qualities such as having acceptable behavior, being courteous, ...

Among the things common to first dates is anticipation. Anticipation is what embodies or generates the feeling of excitement that is felt before the date actually takes place The thought of being with someone and of engaging in a fun activity such as dinner, going to the movies or for a walk, should create a good feeling and therefore cause some level of excitement   Having some anticipation about a first date will also help you to evaluate the experience after it is over   Anticipation about a first date will also likely lead to having some expectation of what the time together should be like Whatever activities are engaged in, you will be looking to learn about your date And based on your values, your likes and dislikes, the qualities you want in a partner, you will have some hope or expectations that this first date will reveal some of those qualities and other positive attributes   Expectation and having some anticipation about a firs...

Dating is a way of seeking to satisfy a basic human need for companionship, friendship and a close association with others. Dating encompasses more however, because these needs can be fulfilled somewhat through ties with family members   Dating is therefore a quest by individuals to establish a relationship or association with someone of the same or opposite sex, to satisfy longings of a deeper nature To begin to fulfill those basic but much desired longings, a ‘first date’ must be arranged. At first thought, a ‘first date’ seems simple and self-explanatory – the first date between two individuals While that’s always the case, a first date could also be the first time ever someone is going on a date. It could also be the first of a type of date – such as a blind date. And a first date could also be the first time that someone is about to begin dating again following a breakup, illness or other event Whatever the situation, there are some common features ...

you expected was not what you got or you find out she is not the kind of woman you would want to have a permanent relationship with   Let her know that you could just be friends or break it off don’t toy with her feelings. Because if you go on a date with a woman more than twice, she concludes that you are having a permanent relationship with her If you have known her for long, maybe you have been friends for some time and you just realize that you want more than friendship, let her know the level you want your friendship to get to Don’t nurse your feelings for her in secret or assume that she wants the same thing. She might be romantically involved with somebody already or she might not want more than friendship with you Probably she wants you too but does not want to cross the boundary of friendship. Talk with her, tell her how you feel. Act fast before someone beats you to it

Women sense and are turned off by insecurity, so make sure you look and act confident. Groom, dress, move, and pursue like a man who is secure with women and with himself. Be yourself don’t fake it   Start by first talking and later making friends with the person you think is special. Most people don't like to jump straight into a relationship, especially girls Find a reason to talk to the person. Make sure that they want to talk to you. Just talk about something that keeps the conversation going  Be yourself and don't lie just to get to a special person's heart. If they find out later and you're in the middle of a deep relationship or maybe a time when you really need that person, they will leave for good Let the person know that you like them. Beyond the cheesy sending a note through a friend, talk to them about something you both have in common   If you are meeting the woman for the first time strike a conversation with her and let her...

The most important thing to keep in mind when approaching a woman is that first impressions are priceless and are established within the first three seconds after you introduce yourself This means that there is no room for error and you should also know that chatting up a lady is not like in the movies where you can just walk up to a girl and drop some cheesy one liner: then they are in your bed the next morning Don’t use pickup lines because they make the lady feel cheap and it destroys conversation. It’s hard to think of what to say afterward Instead, start with innocent small talk, and you will have a base to build an interesting conversation on   A trick that never fails to work is to focus all your attention and energy of the creature before you and behave as if nothing else exists in the world Focus on what the woman needs and not what you need. For instance women are a creature of drama, and will prefer a soap opera to a sport game  

You probably have a woman in mind that you want to approach or maybe you don’t and you just bump into a woman and you were instantly attracted to her, the first thing you would want to do is to do ANYTHING that will get her talking The key here is to not look nervous or fidgety because she will get weirded out. Remember, stay confident and control the conversation   The purpose of the conversation starter is to build attraction by showing your personality. It’s important to NOT show interest in her until she has shown interest in you I have noticed that most men find it difficult to approach a woman and initiate conversations with them   Initiating conversation with a woman is a big challenge for most men, some are unsure of how to do this in a respectful manner without sounding rude to the woman; some can hold their own once the ball starts rolling; some cannot converse with a woman at all because they are too shy or timid while some find it h...

If you don’t learn anything out of this entire book, make sure you learn how to cultivate unwavering confidence. Women love a confident man! You could be the darkest dude in the world but if you carry yourself as very confident person you won’t have any problems attracting more women and being a player in the dating scene    But just how do you manage to get confidence Most people’s confidence is determined by either past events that happened to them or future events that believe will happen You must stay in the NOW! Don’t think about past things or future things because you don’t want either to determine how you live life One way that you can use to regain your confidence is to find something that you like to do, can do well, and DO IT!   If you have ever wanted to take up a hobby, now is the time   No matter what type of hobby it is, it will do double duty.   It will give you a sense of accomplishment and purpose that will al...

Unstable Women  She constantly changes her mind. She is inconsistent, unpredictable and never knows what she wants. Her mind is like the weather, it changes constantly and she constantly has mood swings She can be attached to you one moment and detached the next moment. Her emotions are unpredictable   Ms Know- It- All She knows everything, she knows about the latest happening in the world of politics. She knows all the actors and actresses in Hollywood. She likes current events She will become your “Walking Newspaper”. She is more interested in your achievement than in you. She questions your thoughts to the point of being provocative Her single-minded enthusiasm will irritate you. She always pursue on intellectual matters. She likes to debate and never stop until everybody will say, She is smart She will tell you about your own duties, responsibilities and your own rights. She will discuss the matter as being the experts. In terms of the l...

   Now we get into the type of women you want to avoid! Yes, some of these women may be very beautiful but it’s not worth all the hassle in the end, believe me Gold diggers are very materialistic and cannot live without the finer things in life. She loves jewelries, designer clothes, expensive cars and she can sleep with a man older than her by 50 years just because he has money Money is the deciding factor in whom she dates. She is described as “femme fatale’ She spends a lot on herself because her looks are her greater assets She is flirty, ambitious and spoiled. However, she is very attractive, sexy and exquisite She uses her beauty to get what she wants. She uses her sex appeal to manipulate men. She uses her luscious personality to entangle and trap men. She might be playing, the devil’s advocate   She is gorgeous but dangerous. She tempts and she flirts, just to get what she wants. She knows how to control men and...

Ms Committed has no hidden agenda about forcing your hand in marriage. She's happy just to be with you So you don't get any, "Where is our relationship going?", or hint-dropping about the future or window-shopping at the jewelry store. She may want to get married at some point, but she's in no hurry -- she thinks that if it happens, it will just happen naturally   Ms Secure accepts herself as she is and is comfortable with her good points, as well as her bad. And she feels the same about you Ms Secure doesn't need constant attention to shore up a sagging ego, has tons of self-esteem, and is always going in her own positive direction

Ms Committed has no hidden agenda about forcing your hand in marriage. She's happy just to be with you So you don't get any, "Where is our relationship going?", or hint-dropping about the future or window-shopping at the jewelry store. She may want to get married at some point, but she's in no hurry -- she thinks that if it happens, it will just happen naturally   Ms Secure accepts herself as she is and is comfortable with her good points, as well as her bad. And she feels the same about you Ms Secure doesn't need constant attention to shore up a sagging ego, has tons of self-esteem, and is always going in her own positive direction

Ms. Straight to the Point knows how to communicate. With Ms. Straight to the Point, there are no games, no expecting men to be mind readers, no behavior based on ridiculous, female-biased advice from articles in Cosmo or The Rules Ms. Straight to the Point will pick up the phone and ask you out. She will do what she says she will do -- not say one thing and do just the opposite Although she may be blunt at times, at least you'll know where you stand and you'll never have to spend hours trying to decode contradictory or emotion-based female behavior Ms Faithful never cheats on you or constantly be on the lookout for a "better deal." When you go out, she won't be scanning the room for other guys, but will keep her attention focused on you, the man in her life She's also more apt to stick around if times get tough