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The No Fear Approach part 2


The most important thing to keep in mind when approaching a woman is that first impressions are priceless and are established within the first three seconds after you introduce yourself

This means that there is no room for error and you should also know that chatting up a lady is not like in the movies where you can just walk up to a girl and drop some cheesy one liner: then they are in your bed the next morning
Don’t use pickup lines because they make the lady feel cheap and it destroys conversation. It’s hard to think of what to say afterward
Instead, start with innocent small talk, and you will have a base to build an interesting conversation on
 
A trick that never fails to work is to focus all your attention and energy of the creature before you and behave as if nothing else exists in the world
Focus on what the woman needs and not what you need. For instance women are a creature of drama, and will prefer a soap opera to a sport game

 

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