the proven dating secrets

Whether or not you take a ‘wait and see’ approach, you must have some ideas about what you desire, or have certain preferences   The extent to which your date shows any of the traits that you prefer can set the tone for future dates, or be an indicator of what potential the date has to become a part of your life Though important, expectation and anticipation about your first date has to be managed so that it doesn’t have a harmful or negative effect  This can happen if you are so filled and overwhelmed by what your are thinking – what you are expecting and anticipating – that you expect exactly that to happen You would then fail to see and to appreciate the true personality of your date If that happens, then the purpose of going on a date will have been futile and useless For the first date, it’s best if you simply ensure that the person meets certain of your basic expectations on qualities such as having acceptable behavior, being courteous, ...

Among the things common to first dates is anticipation. Anticipation is what embodies or generates the feeling of excitement that is felt before the date actually takes place The thought of being with someone and of engaging in a fun activity such as dinner, going to the movies or for a walk, should create a good feeling and therefore cause some level of excitement   Having some anticipation about a first date will also help you to evaluate the experience after it is over   Anticipation about a first date will also likely lead to having some expectation of what the time together should be like Whatever activities are engaged in, you will be looking to learn about your date And based on your values, your likes and dislikes, the qualities you want in a partner, you will have some hope or expectations that this first date will reveal some of those qualities and other positive attributes   Expectation and having some anticipation about a firs...

Dating is a way of seeking to satisfy a basic human need for companionship, friendship and a close association with others. Dating encompasses more however, because these needs can be fulfilled somewhat through ties with family members   Dating is therefore a quest by individuals to establish a relationship or association with someone of the same or opposite sex, to satisfy longings of a deeper nature To begin to fulfill those basic but much desired longings, a ‘first date’ must be arranged. At first thought, a ‘first date’ seems simple and self-explanatory – the first date between two individuals While that’s always the case, a first date could also be the first time ever someone is going on a date. It could also be the first of a type of date – such as a blind date. And a first date could also be the first time that someone is about to begin dating again following a breakup, illness or other event Whatever the situation, there are some common features ...

you expected was not what you got or you find out she is not the kind of woman you would want to have a permanent relationship with   Let her know that you could just be friends or break it off don’t toy with her feelings. Because if you go on a date with a woman more than twice, she concludes that you are having a permanent relationship with her If you have known her for long, maybe you have been friends for some time and you just realize that you want more than friendship, let her know the level you want your friendship to get to Don’t nurse your feelings for her in secret or assume that she wants the same thing. She might be romantically involved with somebody already or she might not want more than friendship with you Probably she wants you too but does not want to cross the boundary of friendship. Talk with her, tell her how you feel. Act fast before someone beats you to it

Women sense and are turned off by insecurity, so make sure you look and act confident. Groom, dress, move, and pursue like a man who is secure with women and with himself. Be yourself don’t fake it   Start by first talking and later making friends with the person you think is special. Most people don't like to jump straight into a relationship, especially girls Find a reason to talk to the person. Make sure that they want to talk to you. Just talk about something that keeps the conversation going  Be yourself and don't lie just to get to a special person's heart. If they find out later and you're in the middle of a deep relationship or maybe a time when you really need that person, they will leave for good Let the person know that you like them. Beyond the cheesy sending a note through a friend, talk to them about something you both have in common   If you are meeting the woman for the first time strike a conversation with her and let her...

The most important thing to keep in mind when approaching a woman is that first impressions are priceless and are established within the first three seconds after you introduce yourself This means that there is no room for error and you should also know that chatting up a lady is not like in the movies where you can just walk up to a girl and drop some cheesy one liner: then they are in your bed the next morning Don’t use pickup lines because they make the lady feel cheap and it destroys conversation. It’s hard to think of what to say afterward Instead, start with innocent small talk, and you will have a base to build an interesting conversation on   A trick that never fails to work is to focus all your attention and energy of the creature before you and behave as if nothing else exists in the world Focus on what the woman needs and not what you need. For instance women are a creature of drama, and will prefer a soap opera to a sport game  

You probably have a woman in mind that you want to approach or maybe you don’t and you just bump into a woman and you were instantly attracted to her, the first thing you would want to do is to do ANYTHING that will get her talking The key here is to not look nervous or fidgety because she will get weirded out. Remember, stay confident and control the conversation   The purpose of the conversation starter is to build attraction by showing your personality. It’s important to NOT show interest in her until she has shown interest in you I have noticed that most men find it difficult to approach a woman and initiate conversations with them   Initiating conversation with a woman is a big challenge for most men, some are unsure of how to do this in a respectful manner without sounding rude to the woman; some can hold their own once the ball starts rolling; some cannot converse with a woman at all because they are too shy or timid while some find it h...